Comments on: Reflecting on mommy-guilt https://www.publicationcoach.com/amy-shearn/ & Gray-Grant Communications Fri, 07 Jan 2022 23:42:55 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.8.1 By: May https://www.publicationcoach.com/amy-shearn/#comment-2388 Fri, 02 Aug 2013 04:45:00 +0000 http://pubcoach2018.wpengine.com/?p=6418#comment-2388 In reply to Daphne Gray-Grant.

I have! I own a copy of Writing Down the Bones.

Another writer, Susan Piver, writes about both subjects. She stated in a podcast that in her experience, writing and meditation are essentially the same internal process. Arguably there are some important differences all the same, but she wouldn’t be the first to think of writing as a form of meditative attention.

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By: Daphne Gray-Grant https://www.publicationcoach.com/amy-shearn/#comment-2387 Thu, 01 Aug 2013 18:38:00 +0000 http://pubcoach2018.wpengine.com/?p=6418#comment-2387 In reply to May.

Have you read any of Natalie Goldberg’s books on writing, May? She writes a lot about the relationship between writing and meditating.

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By: May https://www.publicationcoach.com/amy-shearn/#comment-2385 Thu, 01 Aug 2013 02:40:00 +0000 http://pubcoach2018.wpengine.com/?p=6418#comment-2385 Sorry for the formatting in my last comment here, I’m not sure what happened there!

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By: May https://www.publicationcoach.com/amy-shearn/#comment-2384 Thu, 01 Aug 2013 02:18:00 +0000 http://pubcoach2018.wpengine.com/?p=6418#comment-2384 I enjoyed this column a lot, not only because it revealed a bit of
your perspective on the mommy guilt, but it delicately–yet
deeply–touches on a profound aspect of writing.

I like
how you say that writing is more about attention than skill or talent;
it’s poetically succinct about so much of the writing experience. Funny,
too, because I was just thinking this about meditation the very day I
read this.

My thought was that the whole mechanism of
meditation appears to really just be two things: noticing and relaxing.
Writing works on the same mechanism, I find, and so many writers report
the same. Tap into your observations and don’t judge it, let the
creative voice finish speaking without being interrupted.

Another
link is that both activities are about letting yourself shift in to a
natural mindset, much like slowly sinking into a hot bath. It takes a
few minutes, and can be jarring at first, but the only way to get the
process working is just to start it. I waste a lot of time trying to
“prepare” my mindset before writing, only to find repeatedly that the
crucial step is to just get across that threshold.

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