Comments on: Do you suffer from writing perfectionism? https://www.publicationcoach.com/writing-perfectionism/ & Gray-Grant Communications Fri, 17 May 2024 17:58:06 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.8.1 By: Daphne Gray-Grant https://www.publicationcoach.com/writing-perfectionism/#comment-8471 Fri, 04 Nov 2016 17:46:00 +0000 http://pubcoach2018.wpengine.com/?p=15563#comment-8471 In reply to Raquel Leao.

The longer you can wait without getting feedback, the better. But for something that has a short deadline (e.g.: a blog post, a letter and perhaps the essay you were writing), it’s perfectly okay to get feedback sooner. Just be sure you trust the person giving you the feedback!

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By: Raquel Leao https://www.publicationcoach.com/writing-perfectionism/#comment-8469 Fri, 04 Nov 2016 17:09:00 +0000 http://pubcoach2018.wpengine.com/?p=15563#comment-8469 Hello Daphne,

Today I completed another page of a text I am writing to a medical students essay competition. I am loving to write it. I even have a smile on my face while typing and I am not re-editing. I also wanna share that the day I wrote the first words I had the PC covered up as you suggest in this post. It works!

Since I felt so good while writing, I wanted to share it with my boyfriend and hear his opinion (I told him to ignore any mistake) and I did. I was so nervous to show him the text, deep inside I was afraid he would kill my mood or not get my point.

What do you think , is it a good or bad thing to share the drafts right away?

By the way, my boyfriend said he really liked the text.

Thank you
Raquel L

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By: Daphne Gray-Grant https://www.publicationcoach.com/writing-perfectionism/#comment-8407 Sun, 16 Oct 2016 14:28:00 +0000 http://pubcoach2018.wpengine.com/?p=15563#comment-8407 In reply to petruta.

The difference really depends on what I’m writing. For my weekly column, for example, there’s typically little difference in structure & form after editing. That’s because I’ve been doing this column for 10 years now and I feel as though the structure is carved into my brain! But for the book I’m working on right now, there are often HUGE changes in structure between the first draft and the final one.

In terms of leaning how the “great writers” edited, I think it’s more useful to consider your own working habits and develop an approach that really works for you. We are all very different!

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By: petruta https://www.publicationcoach.com/writing-perfectionism/#comment-8406 Sun, 16 Oct 2016 02:30:00 +0000 http://pubcoach2018.wpengine.com/?p=15563#comment-8406 In reply to Daphne Gray-Grant.

This is very useful advice . Thank you Daphne . How different are your final version and the first draft ( as content, structure, form)? I read your post on how great writers wrote. I am curious how great writers edit. Of course, I do not know how people were able to edit/ write before computers, but manuscripts are great for us to pick into editing process, perhaps. (?)

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By: Hafiz Nazari https://www.publicationcoach.com/writing-perfectionism/#comment-8405 Sat, 15 Oct 2016 17:51:00 +0000 http://pubcoach2018.wpengine.com/?p=15563#comment-8405 In reply to Daphne Gray-Grant.

Thanks for your wonderful post Daphne. It is a great idea. I will definitely give it a shot!

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By: Daphne Gray-Grant https://www.publicationcoach.com/writing-perfectionism/#comment-8404 Fri, 14 Oct 2016 17:24:00 +0000 http://pubcoach2018.wpengine.com/?p=15563#comment-8404 In reply to Hafiz Nazari.

My rule when it comes to books is that I wait at least six weeks before editing. So I don’t finish a chapter and edit it right away. I force myself to wait six weeks.That way I have the opportunity to come to the material with much fresher eyes. For stuff that needs to be turned around faster I try to give material at least a day. If that’s impossible, I will do something else, ideally something very distracting (lunch/phone conversation/work on a very different project), before turning my attention to editing.

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By: Hafiz Nazari https://www.publicationcoach.com/writing-perfectionism/#comment-8403 Fri, 14 Oct 2016 17:12:00 +0000 http://pubcoach2018.wpengine.com/?p=15563#comment-8403 Hi Daphne,

Thanks for your wonderful tips! I have been trying to get rid of my habit of editing while I am writing, and I find your tips quite useful. But, I was wondering how often do you edit while you write? For example, when you are writing a book do you edit after you have written a chapter? Or do you do the entire editing after finishing the whole book?

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By: Daphne Gray-Grant https://www.publicationcoach.com/writing-perfectionism/#comment-8402 Fri, 14 Oct 2016 14:29:00 +0000 http://pubcoach2018.wpengine.com/?p=15563#comment-8402 In reply to Nandita Singh.

Glad this rang true for you!

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By: Nandita Singh https://www.publicationcoach.com/writing-perfectionism/#comment-8401 Fri, 14 Oct 2016 04:26:00 +0000 http://pubcoach2018.wpengine.com/?p=15563#comment-8401 You have hit the nail on the head. Many a times we do confuse perfectionism with other distractions or habits. It helps being gently and clearly being reminded of the same. Thanks !

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By: Daphne Gray-Grant https://www.publicationcoach.com/writing-perfectionism/#comment-8399 Thu, 13 Oct 2016 18:43:00 +0000 http://pubcoach2018.wpengine.com/?p=15563#comment-8399 In reply to kw.

Just want to clarify that I am NOT an academic, but I have worked with many. Thanks of your kind words.

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