Comments on: Do you suffer from imposter syndrome? https://www.publicationcoach.com/imposter-syndrome/ & Gray-Grant Communications Mon, 07 May 2018 14:13:00 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.8.1 By: Daphne Gray-Grant https://www.publicationcoach.com/imposter-syndrome/#comment-10333 Mon, 07 May 2018 14:13:00 +0000 http://pubcoach2018.wpengine.com/?p=14571#comment-10333 In reply to Rusty LaGrange.

Thanks, Rusty. Of course you have permission to reprint my work. Please just use the credit we’ve spoken about in the past.

I love your suggestion of “acting as if.” This is a really smart strategy and works well for a great many people. Thanks for mentioing it!

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By: Rusty LaGrange https://www.publicationcoach.com/imposter-syndrome/#comment-10328 Thu, 03 May 2018 06:23:00 +0000 http://pubcoach2018.wpengine.com/?p=14571#comment-10328 I really appreciated this insight for imposter syndrome. I hadn’t heard of it before now.
I’d like reprint permissions for this article for our statewide Bulletin of Calif Writers Club.
For a sample of my work go to http://www.calwriters.org/current-issue then click on the Bulletin icon. It should open up a new viewing page. Not sure where all of the other issues are — should be there. I print three issues a year.

I’d like to share an insight of my own. When I was trying to figure out my journalism career and its direction toward reporting and graphic arts, I would try not to compare myself to others but I always did. I was talking myself out of major steps forward because I didn’t feel I had earned the right.

I read that if you “Act as if you do” in all things that you wish to attain, then by consciously telling yourself, you will eventually believe that it is more true than you realized. I posted a small sign on my computer and it became my mantra…

Act as if you do … so I acted as if I was a great writer and photographer, won a couple of awards in college, then moved on to my career taking that mantra with me. It worked. My confidence grew; my abilities blossomed and I realized many of my goals. I still fight self-doubt and that dreaded “imposter syndrome” but now I know what it is and I “kick it to the curb.” That’s my new mantra.

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By: Daphne Gray-Grant https://www.publicationcoach.com/imposter-syndrome/#comment-10327 Thu, 03 May 2018 00:47:00 +0000 http://pubcoach2018.wpengine.com/?p=14571#comment-10327 In reply to Nancy Nyberg.

I’d be interested to know what surprised you, Nancy.

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By: Daphne Gray-Grant https://www.publicationcoach.com/imposter-syndrome/#comment-10326 Thu, 03 May 2018 00:46:00 +0000 http://pubcoach2018.wpengine.com/?p=14571#comment-10326 In reply to LJ.

It interests me that the research appears to show there is no difference between the # of women and men afflicted with imposter syndrome. (See link in the post, above.) I think, perhaps that men are just more aggressive about hiding it.

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By: Daphne Gray-Grant https://www.publicationcoach.com/imposter-syndrome/#comment-10325 Thu, 03 May 2018 00:45:00 +0000 http://pubcoach2018.wpengine.com/?p=14571#comment-10325 In reply to Ingrid A.

Indeed, the mind is very funny. As I said in a comment above, I think the combo of acknowledging the feeling of being an imposter and resolving not to let this feeling influence our behaviour is a powerful way to deal with the challenge.

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By: Daphne Gray-Grant https://www.publicationcoach.com/imposter-syndrome/#comment-10324 Thu, 03 May 2018 00:43:00 +0000 http://pubcoach2018.wpengine.com/?p=14571#comment-10324 In reply to Leigh Candy.

Yes, I think on some level we are ALL total frauds who are held together by nothing more than bubblegum and spit! I find it comforting to know that many clearly talented writers have also felt like imposters.

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By: Daphne Gray-Grant https://www.publicationcoach.com/imposter-syndrome/#comment-10323 Thu, 03 May 2018 00:42:00 +0000 http://pubcoach2018.wpengine.com/?p=14571#comment-10323 In reply to Elizabeth H. Cottrell.

Thanks for your kind words, Elizabeth!

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By: Daphne Gray-Grant https://www.publicationcoach.com/imposter-syndrome/#comment-10321 Thu, 03 May 2018 00:41:00 +0000 http://pubcoach2018.wpengine.com/?p=14571#comment-10321 In reply to Rabbit Pellets.

For me, what works with the idea of “leaving doubt alone to do its work” is that it both acknowledges the existence of doubt (which is healthy) and simultaneously suggests the value of IGNORING it. I think that combo is exceptionally powerful.

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By: Daphne Gray-Grant https://www.publicationcoach.com/imposter-syndrome/#comment-10322 Thu, 03 May 2018 00:41:00 +0000 http://pubcoach2018.wpengine.com/?p=14571#comment-10322 In reply to Jagadish Kumar.

You’re very welcome, Jagadish! Glad it resonated for you.

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By: Rabbit Pellets https://www.publicationcoach.com/imposter-syndrome/#comment-10318 Wed, 02 May 2018 22:00:00 +0000 http://pubcoach2018.wpengine.com/?p=14571#comment-10318 I love your calling out doubt, the “do your work and let doubt do his.” It grants permission to aim high, even ridiculously high, as every aspiring professional ideally ought. While the handicapping insight provides a gently sloping path out of procrastination. Bringing forward again the curative power of fulfilling work done well.

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